A Comprehensive Sex Toy Guide: Sex Toy Categories and Materials

Choosing your first sex toy can be exciting—but also a bit overwhelming, with so many shapes, functions, and sensations to explore. That’s why this guide is here: to walk you through every step of the process. We’ll cover why people use sex toys, how to find the right one for your body and preferences, and what to look for in terms of materials and features—so your first purchase feels confident, safe, and truly satisfying.

1. Why Do People Use Sex Toys?

Sex toys are more than just tools for pleasure. They can:

• Help you understand your body better
  
• Relieve stress and tension
  
• Increase sexual confidence and awareness
  
• Enhance intimacy with a partner
  
• Support sexual health, especially for people experiencing challenges like low libido, erectile dysfunction, or vaginal dryness

Tip: Using a sex toy isn’t about replacing touch or connection—it’s about adding more options to your pleasure toolkit.

2.Types of Sex Toys: A Beginner’s Guide

Clitoris Stimulators (Always recommended for beginners)

These toys focus on the external part of the vulva — the clitoris — which has thousands of nerve endings and is one of the most responsive erogenous zones. Easy to get an orgasm and non-invasive.

• Sucking Toys
  These use gentle air pulses or vacuum-like sensations to simulate suction, similar to oral sex. They don’t require direct contact and can feel very intense, even on the lowest setting.
  Best for: Solo sessions in bed or the shower (if waterproof). Ideal if you’re new to toys and want focused, hands-free pleasure without penetration.
• Licking Toys
  Featuring a small, rotating or flicking tongue made of soft silicone, these toys mimic the motion of oral play. Many have adjustable speeds and patterns.
  Best for: Those who enjoy slow build-up and want to recreate a partner-like oral experience. Great for foreplay or solo nights.
• Vibrating Toys
  These use vibration to stimulate the clitoris. They come in many sizes and shapes — from tiny bullets to larger ones with multiple modes.
  Best for: Quick sessions or layered stimulation (during penetration or nipple play). Easy to use.
• Vibrating Wands
  Wands have larger heads and deliver deep, rumbly vibrations. Originally for muscle relief, many now come in smaller, body-safe versions for intimate use. 
  Best for: Intense, all-over stimulation. Great for climax. Ideal when you want strong sensations fast.

Use Scenario: Great for solo play, warm-up, or enhancing foreplay with a partner. Tip: Start on the lowest setting and increase slowly. External toys are non-invasive and ideal for first-timers.

G-Spot Stimulators / Dildos

These toys are made for internal stimulation, specifically targeting the G-spot — a sensitive area inside the front wall of the vagina.

• G-Spot Vibrators
  These have curved or angled tips designed to reach and press against the G-spot. Many offer pulsing or vibrating functions to amplify sensation.
  Best for: Exploring internal pleasure and paired with clitoral stimulation for blended orgasms. Use with lube for smooth insertion.
• Dildos
  Dildos are non-vibrating, solid or flexible shafts used for manual penetration. They come in various materials — from soft silicone to glass or metal — and sizes.
  Best for: People who enjoy full control of pace and depth. Perfect for slow solo play, or with a partner during foreplay.
• Besisdes, it comes in different sizes. 

  The average vaginal canal is about 3 to 4 inches (7.5–10 cm) deep when not aroused and can expand up to 5 to 7 inches (12.7–17.8 cm) when aroused. So, most beginners don’t need a long or wide dildo to start with.

  For your first experience, comfort matters more than size. A medium length (~6.10 inches insertable) and moderate diameter (~1.57 inches) is usually ideal.

Use Scenario: Good for exploring internal pleasure. Always use lube! Tip: The G-spot isn’t always easy to find at first—and that’s okay and it often feels best when paired with clitoral stimulation.

Multi-Zone Stimulators (e.g., Rabbit Vibrators)

These combine at least two functions in one — internal and external — and are often equipped with dual motors.

• Rabbit Vibrators
  Famous for their "bunny ear" clitoral stimulator and curved G-spot arm, rabbit vibes deliver simultaneous pleasure to both zones.
  Best for: People who want a quick path to blended orgasms. Great for private time when you want full-body sensation without switching toys.

Use Scenario: Ideal for users comfortable with both internal and external play Tip: These can be intense, so take your time to learn what rhythm works for you. If it feels overwhelming, try using just the internal or external arm first before combining both.

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Masturbation Toys for Penis-Owners

• Masturbation Sleeves
  These soft, stretchy tubes are lined with ridges or bumps inside. You lube up, insert, and move it manually for stimulation.
  Best for: Enhancing hand jobs, experimenting with different textures, and improving solo sessions. Easy to clean and store discreetly.
• Electric Masturbators
  Battery-powered or rechargeable, these add automatic stroking, suction, or vibration. Some mimic oral or penetrative sensations and may include heating features.
  Best for: Hands-free fun or stamina training. Ideal if you want a more immersive, tech-driven experience. Use in bed or sitting down.

Use Scenario: Solo sessions, stamina training, or just switching things up Tip: Use a lot of lube, and experiment with grip, pressure, and rhythm to find your favorite combo.

3. Where to start? How to choose?

For People with Vulvas:

• It is always recommended to start with clitoral stimulation (external)—it's the most reliable way to reach orgasm, especially for beginners.
• Then move to G-spot stimulation if you're curious about internal play.
• Try dual-stimulation toys (e.g., rabbit vibrators) once you're comfortable.

Tip: The clitoris is sensitive and responds differently for everyone—some prefer a light tease, others strong vibrations. Don't be afraid to try different intensities and styles. 

For People with Penises:

• It is always recommended to begin with a masturbator (either a sleeve or an electric version), as it offers a quick introduction to the sensation of penile stimulation and the experience of ejaculation
• When you're ready, try torso butt that mimic real-life sex. They can be used to practice and prepare for partnered experiences, or to build stamina—for greater confidence and a healthier mindset.

Tip: Begin with something simple and satisfying to get a feel for it—then step up to more realistic practice when you're ready. Go with what feels exciting to you.

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4. Materials Guide: What Are Sex Toys Made Of?
Sex Toy Materials Guide (with Care Tips)

When it comes to sex toys, material matters — not just for how they feel, but also for hygiene, durability, and safety. Here’s a breakdown of common materials, so you can choose what suits your body and needs best.

Materials to Avoid

Quick Cleaning Tips by Material

• Silicone / ABS / Glass / Steel: Mild soap + warm water or toy cleaner
• Porous materials (TPE, Cyberskin): Use a condom; wash thoroughly but replace frequently
• Boil-safe (Silicone, Glass, Steel): Can be sterilized by boiling for 3–5 minutes (if no motor)

💡 Smart Toy Shopping Tips for Beginners

When exploring pleasure products, quality matters more than quantity—especially for your body. Cheap toys might seem tempting, but they often contain questionable materials, irritating chemicals, or wear out quickly. Many low-cost options use porous plastics or rubber that can trap bacteria and degrade over time.

That’s why all GITM toys are crafted using medical-grade, body-safe materials like premium silicone, stainless steel, and ABS plastic—free from phthalates and other harmful additives. We believe in pleasure you can trust—because your comfort, health, and confidence come first.

✨ A well-made toy lasts longer, feels better, and keeps you safer. Think of it as investing in your body, not just your bedroom.

5.Final Thoughts: Where to Begin Your Pleasure Journey

Starting your journey with sex toys is a form of self-care — a chance to explore what feels good on your terms. If you're not sure where to start, here’s a gentle step-by-step guide tailored to different bodies and preferences:

For People with Vulvas:

① Start with Clitoral Stimulation
Clitoral toys — like suction toys, vibrators, or soft flickers — are great first steps. They’re external, easy to use, and can bring quick, satisfying results. Intensity level: Wand＞licking=sucking＞vibrating.

② Explore Internal Play (G-Spot Stimulation/N in one, multiple stimulation)
Once you're comfortable externally, try curved G-spot vibrators or slim dildos. Use plenty of lube, go slowly, and focus on how different angles feel.

③ Try Combined Stimulation
When you're ready, dual-action toys (like rabbit vibrators) can give you blended pleasure by stimulating both internal and external zones at once.

For People with Penises:

① Start with Hand-Held Masturbators
Soft sleeves and electric masturbators offer a new level of sensation while still feeling natural. They're great for enhancing your usual solo routine.

② Try More Realistic Toys
Move up to pocket pussies for a more immersive experience. These mimic real sensations and are great for either relaxation or stamina training.

No matter where you start, the most important things are curiosity, comfort, and consent with yourself. There’s no “right” speed or sequence — it’s all about discovering what works for you.

Give yourself the space to experiment, take your time, and most of all — enjoy the process. Pleasure is personal, and this journey is yours to shape.